So, right in the title itself, I suggest you continue the phrase “Go there...” I don’t know what you chose. It’s great if you came up with your own version that you like! But I’m sure that out of inertia, most of you continued it the way you learned from a children’s fairy tale: “Go there, I don’t know where, bring that, I don’t know what!” ". Yeah... Not an easy task. But our unconscious field (of more than one generation) is stitched with these fairy-tale stories, and now, hero, twist as you wish, “take it out and put it down!” “But how can I go in an unknown direction, and even look for an unknown thing? ?!” - the mind will be indignant if it does not sleep, but your unconscious, rolling up its sleeves, will go in search and, I think, will find! Here it is a Russian miracle! It’s like according to Zadornov, remember? - Am I going right? - Yes! Wherever I go our man, his direction is correct, a priori, by definition. It’s not the worst option to believe in the path, but what is the goal? The path (tao) is very oriental and I must say, it is not without meaning, since the unconscious is more honest than the evil mind and if it is your compass, there is a chance that you will get where you need to go, although, like in a fairy tale, you will have to meet some conditions. Well, there, wear out the iron boots, save the beauty, etc. I’ll tell you a secret that there is a third option: YOU CAN just go, enjoy and be happy! Why does the Russian fairy tale send us in an unknown direction, and even pose tasks for us on the way, without which you cannot get to your destination? Today (with the power of my hindsight), I would continue this phrase like this: “Go where you want and you will find what you are looking for!” Why does our poor Ivan the Fool have such strange tasks they put on fairy-tale plots, when here it is, it turns out that everything is simpler? Why does the Russian mind need such strange, I’m not afraid of this word, travel? Before answering this question, I, dear reader, will ask you another question. - Why are you, dear friend, do you want? As a rule, finding yourself at an appointment with a psychologist, brought there by an unknown force called “something is wrong,” a person cannot clearly answer this question right away. So why all the fuss, for what is the soul dragging the darkened, confused mind to a psychologist? There are, of course, clients who immediately come with an understanding of what they want and they need support in creating a map to move towards the goal, but Ivan, he himself doesn’t know what he wants, he just has to go. He is prompted by some invisible force (the fairytale matchmaker Naum)) to go in an unknown direction. For such clients, an essential part of the psychotherapeutic process is the awareness of their true desires. So they come for themselves, their real selves. They come to understand who I am, what I want, what is the meaning of my life, what is its happiness! Ivanushka comes as a Fool, and leaves as a Tsarevich! HERE IS THE NEW CONSCIOUSNESS IN ALL YOUR BEAUTY! So you can go through your entire age as a Fool, and not realize that the Tsarevich... Come, let's find your real self, formulate your desires, goals. Knowing your real desires is great happiness, (although this is only half the battle), because only the path of your true desires can lead you to where you need to go! Let me give you an example. Fairy-tale, of course). For example, you want to marry a prince, but there are not enough princes around you. You can rush in search of princes and maybe even find them, but there are no guarantees. The second option, you can rush in search of yourself, that is, to realize your wishes.- I want to go to the dance! And you are already at the dance!- I want to learn how to cook fondue! And you went to short-term courses in making fondue. I want…. Next, insert yours, and most importantly, GO! And TRY! And there, you see, smiling and happy, you will find, well, if not a prince, then a great mood or new friends who, who knows, maybe know a prince still unknown to you. It happens in any way, it may turn out that the prince lives on the next street. You just can’t see him from the tower. Well, one more thing, why is the first option not an option? But because searching for a prince will not make you happy, and a sad face does not contribute to either dating or success! Wish, do, enjoy, realize,!