Today at the Master Group there was a very unique situation. The father of a teenager (divorced from his wife), lives separately from his teenage child, volunteered to work with me. Sometimes he meets with him. That is, the child lives and is raised without a father in his mother’s family. I had to stop the consultation and take another client with her case to a demonstration session. And I offered help to the first client outside the webinar, since his case did not apply to the educational format of the master group. What should specialists who study cross-coaching in my course take into account? Cross-coaching does not apply to psychotherapeutic counseling. Cross-coaching is short-term substantive work, but not work with client conditions. The subject of cross-coaching is the problematic behavior of a child, which the parent raising this child can correct. You may encounter similar practical cases when divorced parents with whom the child does not live come to you for consultation. Here, first of all, you need to consider working with client's conditions (psychotherapeutic orientation). Because in this case we are dealing with a severance of family ties and connections (loss), which does not allow us to create the desired relationship with the ex-wife and the child who remained with the ex-wife. The mother’s opinion plays a big role in the child’s worldview and his attitude towards his father . And in this case, the child’s mother has a very strong influence on his opinion of his father and his attitude towards his father. Therefore, colleagues, I draw your attention!!! You can help correct the child’s problematic behavior with the help of cross-coaching to the parents with whom this child is with lives. In the event that a parent with whom the child does not live has applied, you will be limited only to general recommendations based on the specific request of the parent. Since the greater emphasis in the work of a psychologist with a parent, most often in such cases, is placed on experiencing the loss and forming a new picture of the world for this parent associated with the severance of family ties. In this regard, it is very important in advance to comprehend each step that is aimed at choosing a partner and creating family ties. When passion passes in a relationship and emotions subside, the thought often appears that “the love is gone” and the temptation arises to create a new relationship with a new partner. But after a relationship with a previous partner, there is a child left who is not at all to blame for that you are “burnt out” for your ex-husband. A child who will follow with the karma of an abandoned, unnecessary person throughout his life. Karma that was originally created for him by his parents. Children will pay for the consequences of your decisions and family actions. It is important to always remember this! If you take this into account, then more awareness is added in how you build your relationships in the family now. The next Master Group for psychologists will be held on Sunday: https://www.crosscoaching.ru/web