I really like to watch. Observe yourself, others, the world in general. And when I have questions or someone makes me think, the first thing I think is - what have I already observed about this in life? What is my experience? What is the experience of others? Now I advise many women who want to meet the man they love, find a couple, and start a family. They have difficulties along the way. They are all different, live in different countries and cities, but there is something in common that unites them. As a rule, this is low self-esteem, childhood traumas and complexes, unsuccessful experiences in past relationships. What unites happy women who have met the man they love According to my favorite habit, now I pay special attention to women who seem happy to me. They also have something in common. And we, people, learn everything through role models - that’s why we walk upright, and don’t crawl and speak the language of our parents. Maybe there is something to learn from the happy ones? So: 1) They love their body. They accept it, do not overfeed it, but do not starve it either. They don’t criticize what cannot be changed. And they happily invest love, time and money into things that can be improved. 2) They consider themselves sexy and willingly share this gift with the world. This doesn’t even imply any extra effort, they just chose to be like that and then it’s a matter of technique. 3) They have a favorite thing. They are passionate about it. They have been implemented. They have their own financial flows, everyone has different ones, but they do.4) They know what they want and what they don’t want. They set their goals and achieve them. Whether it's new shoes, a vacation or a yoga trip. They can stand up for themselves if they are trying to push them in the wrong direction. 5) They are sure that the main value of their life is themselves. And then everyone else with their needs and desires.6) They respect themselves, which means they respect others.7) They continue to grow and develop. They are always interested in something, discover something new and move forward. Sometimes it’s a new language, sometimes a new sport, sometimes a new book, etc. And they have definitely met the man they love, who looks at them with admiration and pride. Why? Because he has them, and a man unconsciously learns to treat a woman the way she treats herself. The Universe, in turn, looks at how we treat ourselves and sends us a man who can repeat it. Does he criticize, get angry, insult himself, doesn’t want to develop and grow professionally? Yeah. This candidate will cope with a bang and will support her in all her internal aspirations. Loves, accepts, etc. + knows that love exists - we also have men for people like that. Receive it, sign it. What do you think is now your main barrier to meeting the man you love or to building a harmonious relationship? With love, Liliya Sheleg