From the author: To whom more is given, more will be asked. Whatever one may say, girls, the weather in the house and not only the weather depends on us! Good luck and Love to you! I want you to be Happy! Women come to a consultation with a psychologist only when nothing else helps, and they can no longer endure the tension in the relationship. The most common and widespread offense against your man is groundless nagging and accusations. This usually happens like this. The husband returns from work, and she is busy all day around the house. She is in a good mood, but he is not in a good mood and is becoming more and more gloomy every minute. It happens that right from the doorway they begin to make claims. Why is the window open? Why is the front door locked with two turns of the key, but it should be three? Why isn't dinner on the table yet? Why did the carrots dry up in the refrigerator? Why is the baby still not sleeping? The claims are varied and, as a rule, do not have sufficient grounds for such “steep showdowns.” The woman is at a loss. She tries to explain something to him, to somehow justify herself, but he does not listen and continues his “terror” until she gets upset, bursts into tears, and is offended. Tomorrow, of course, he will say that he doesn’t know what came over him and won’t do it again, but everything is repeated with amazing accuracy, time after time. The situations may be completely different, but it all comes down to the fact that “he feels bad, when I feel good." When a woman is in a good mood, a man’s mood suddenly deteriorates. A woman, as a rule, does not understand this immediately, but after repeatedly falling into this “rake.” Sometimes it takes years. Often a family cannot withstand such a test and falls apart. What happens and what to do about it? We all come into this world to learn. In any school, there are primary school students and senior students. Each grade has its own program and what a sixth grade student learns is not clear to a second grader. In life everything is exactly the same. We are all at different levels of development, which means we sound differently. Here we return to the topic “High and low tone of a person.” Read more about tonal sound and determining a person’s tone in the article “Your People. How to find?” If a woman’s base frequency is higher than that of her man, then the following happens. The man loves her very much and is afraid of losing her. When he comes home and sees his wife in a great mood, then... the next process begins. The fact is that we take information through vision, and it is processed in brain analyzers. That is, the eyes see the wife, but the brain does not! A woman is in higher vibrations and information about her is higher frequency. His brain does not yet perceive this information. First of all, he takes down information only at his own level. Subconsciously, the man begins to worry. He loves her and is afraid of losing her! The subconscious begins to look for a woman and finds her, figuratively speaking, above its head. Of course, this is regarded as an escape! She leaves! He's losing her! We need to put it back in place! How? Yes, very simple! You need to sit your wife next to her, it’s enough to upset her. Then its sound will decrease and, here it is already in front of him! There is nothing more to worry about! The subconscious fulfills all our requests, it does everything to make us happy. Well, return it, return it! And the easiest way is to lower its vibrations. In slang it sounds like “lower.” And he lowers it. There is, of course, another way - to climb to it yourself, but it is very difficult. This requires good reasons and awareness of the situation. A woman cries from resentment, injustice and from the fact that he does not love her... But he loves her! He's afraid of losing! And he's in a great mood. Hence the expression “hitting means loving.” Having put down the “enemy,” he leaves the “battlefield” as a winner and literally hums something under his breath. A woman’s resentment is off the charts! To stay with such a man, because there are reasons, a woman is forced to spend her life in tears, then she is on the same sound level with him. And this is a complete rejection!