Good afternoon, Dear Friends! So, a few more examples, as I promised yesterday. Examples about how in different situations we may think that another is some kind of energy vampire or toxic person, if after communicating with him we feel a loss of strength and a worsening mood. And these examples are about what to do in such situations, of course. So, for example, some friend of ours constantly asks us some increasingly uncomfortable questions when we meet. But we suffer and don’t know what to answer him every time, we get embarrassed, babble something and every time after such meetings we feel tired. What happened? They restrained something and spent a lot of energy on this containment. What did they hold back? For example, simple words that we are not ready to discuss all these topics with him. Why? Yes, we don’t want it and that’s it! We have the right. He doesn’t let up: “Listen, leave me alone, please! :-) How is your life? Is everything okay?” They restrained themselves, having lost freedom... They themselves lost a lot of energy as a result... Sometimes someone gets smart, shows that he knows everything well and how well he lives. And then, after such a person, we feel worthless, stupid, so to speak, unsuccessful... This sometimes happens when communicating with a person with a pronounced narcissistic radical. It was he who got rid of his so-called “insignificant part” by placing it in us and receiving relief. Roughly speaking, he humiliated us, exalted himself, and for some reason (!) we succumbed and believed that we were not very good. Here, too, you can ask yourself why you should humiliate yourself if the other person is good and speaks well of himself. And here, too, it is not magic or some kind of mysticism and another is not a vampire, but simply someone has exalted themselves at our expense, and they have tried, apparently, skillfully, in a veiled way, to show us our shortcomings, to highlight them, to emphasize them. And everyone has them... They know how to hit the nerve (people with a pronounced narcissistic radical), because they have trained themselves, not from a good life, of course, to raise their self-esteem in this way. Sometimes you really can’t argue with someone, you have to endure. For example, with the boss. But here we need to look at how we restrain ourselves inside. For example, with external consent, you can express an internal protest against his unfair attacks, at least maintaining peace of mind. Or sharing your experiences with someone would be useful here. In general, the support of others is important in such situations. They talked, heard opinions and changed their attitude towards some things, or began to handle them more freely. The support of others is a huge resource! Here are some examples I gave you yesterday and today. I hope this makes it clearer what actually happens when we think that another is some kind of mysterious energy vampire. Everything is actually scientifically explainable! And no mysticism! Thank you for your attention! I look forward to your responses! If you liked the material, please click on “Say thanks”! In order not to miss interesting things, subscribe to my publications! And please share the material on social networks! :) Sign up for a consultation:+ 7 - 9 6 5 - 3 1 7 - 5 6 - 1 2-