This type of parent is also called juvenile, frivolous, consumer, parasite. Characteristic feature: childish facial expressions, childish face, pretty appearance. In fact, all the traits inherent in children are characteristic of an infantile mother. It's called mental infantilism. When something difficult is easier not to notice than to survive. This is getting stuck in some traumatic situation in childhood that the person could not overcome. And the body grew further, but the psyche did not catch up. Emotions are superficial and short-lived, quickly replacing each other. Empathy is at the level of a 3-year-old child: it’s a pity that the bug now has no legs, well, it’s okay - they’ll grow up. She’s always either a daughter or a wife, more often a lover. This is where her personality repertoire ends. She cannot but belong to someone, someone is always responsible for her (the same joke about “If lost, call Vova at 8-905...” on the forehead of the woman who appeared before God). She does not know how to make any decisions, much less bear responsibility for them. In most cases, she does not work or performs some kind of accompanying, simple functionality, but with palace intrigues. If a man leaves her, the first thing she will do is urgently find a new one. Because she is not able to support herself, much less her children. Such women think only here and now (that very unique case when this is such an ability). Dress, relaxation, jewelry, manicure, fur coat, TV series, trends and brands, a community of its own - these are the circle of interests of such a lady. Her husband is primarily a workaholic in order to fulfill all the wishes of his cute little wife. Usually she is absent from home, and the mother is busy with herself; she cannot delve into the child’s affairs or talk to him about something important. He bounces off the wall like a little jumper. “Well, baby, don’t cry, these are such little things.” Moreover, she can be not just indifferent, but indifferently dismissive: “Oh, don’t stir up dampness here, I found something to cry about!” The child of such a superficial mother does not understand what he feels, his experiences or even serious problems remain his only concern. But he doesn’t know anything else and stays close as best he can. And if that was all. But no, such women are usually thrown away as puppies as soon as they start to grow up and become not so funny and pretty. Men. who, in their youth, marry frivolous cuties, over time get tired of feeding them, grow up themselves and the notorious “What to fuck with her about” becomes a stumbling block in the event of a divorce, they usually remain in the conscientious care of their ex-husband, in perpetual support. But this is also the case. not the worst scenario. Basically, they are in the role of a mistress. They are often chosen, but they are quickly exchanged for a fresher and more fashionable option. Men who have such taste are also not simple) And when such a woman finds herself without a “breast” to feed her. , she glares at her child. If he is still small, he is doomed to become his mother’s mother or father. To pity, please, reassure, please, help. Responsibility is an unbearable burden for an immature psyche. Instead of carefree play with friends after school, he must run to his mother, walk with his younger brothers and sisters, and do housework while his mother is looking for a new owner. She can disappear for several days or endlessly bring home new dads, revealing all the subtleties of adult relationships that are not yet subject to the child’s consciousness. Also, this mother can push the child to relatives so that he does not interfere with her personal life. If the child has already grown up, then the mother becomes his wife/husband. She controls, criticizes her offspring's chosen one, and competes for attention. Always sick (to attract attention, care, frequent visits). Starts to die every time a daughter or son does not answer a call or SMS. She constantly whines and presses guilt: “You don’t love me at all,” “You traded your mother for an unfamiliar woman,” “A man is more important than a mother,” “You don’t care that I feel bad, but I put my whole life on you,” “I I will die and you will.