It is a priori inherent in every woman by nature to give birth to children. If a woman has positive medical indications about her health, but pregnancy does not occur, then from a psychological point of view, pregnancy is prevented only by fears and negative beliefs in a woman's head. It is thoughts, feelings and states that create the events of a person’s life. And if a woman wants to get pregnant, but at the same time she is spinning negative beliefs in her head: “What if it doesn’t work out!” or “What if the child is born sick!”, then fears, doubts and uncertainty can block pregnancy. The human psyche is divided into consciousness and subconsciousness. Consciousness - a person can control. But the subconscious, in which hidden, repressed and unconscious feelings, emotions and beliefs are located, is not something a person is aware of. For example, at the level of consciousness, a woman wants to get pregnant. And at the subconscious level, there is an unconscious fear that she will be a bad mother or that she will not be able to get pregnant. And an unconscious belief blocks pregnancy. Therefore, when healthy women who cannot get pregnant come to me, I diagnose a set of thoughts and fears in the woman’s head that can prevent her from becoming pregnant. I will give examples of fears and negative beliefs that I have encountered in my practice among clients. The most interesting thing is that women’s fears are repeated: Fears: - fear of losing a child (when this fear is in the psyche, women experience a missed or terminated pregnancy) - fear of pregnancy itself - fear of pain - fear that I will never become a mother - fear that pregnancy is impossible - fear of giving birth to a sick child (a common fear) - fear of being left without children Negative beliefs: - “I can’t get pregnant” - “I’m old-timer” - “there’s not enough time, I won’t have time” - “my husband and I are like children ourselves” - “I don’t have the strength for a child” - “we can’t afford it financially”, etc. The above are unconscious fears and beliefs. A woman may not be aware of them, because... they are located in the unconscious part of the psyche, but they are the ones who can resist pregnancy. Also, pregnancy can be psychologically blocked - a feeling of guilt towards relatives who are looking forward to pregnancy, as well as resentment towards the husband and lack of perception of him as a man and as the father of the offspring. Also, a woman who cannot get pregnant may once believe in the negative instructions of significant authoritarian people and these words can become a “non-pregnancy scenario” for her. For example, a gynecologist at school told one patient: “You won’t get pregnant!” And this became a program for her until she worked with her thinking and became pregnant. Another doctor told a patient: “A cyst in the leg could negatively affect the pregnancy.” The woman remembered the negative prescription and her neurosis about the cyst - it blocked her pregnancy for more than a year. Or another case - a neighbor said: “Until I got pregnant, I suffered for 4 years.” And the woman unconsciously “grabs” this program and does not become pregnant, because... I believed that first I had to suffer. I will give examples from my practice of working with thinking, after which my clients became pregnant: Story No. 1. Woman, 27 years old. There was no pregnancy for 4 years. In this situation, the woman had a strong feeling of guilt towards her parents and her husband’s parents for the fact that she could not get pregnant. On the street, she felt irritated with other pregnant women and children. We worked through the feeling of guilt towards relatives. The woman became pregnant three months after the session and gave birth to a girl. Story No. 2. Woman, 38 years old. There were several unsuccessful IVFs in the anamnesis. In this situation there were fears: fear of pregnancy itself; fear that I have no strength, I can’t stand it. And a psychological merger with the mother, coupled with the conviction: “If I get pregnant, then my mother will be left alone and it will be difficult for her without me.” After working through psychological blocks, the woman became pregnant three months later........................................................................................................................................