In psychological practice, specifically in family and couples counseling, the question is often asked: “When should we have a baby?” Well, and of course, all the questions derived from this question: “Is it worth having a child? Is it worth having a baby at all? Why have a baby? Should I have a baby now? Why do you need a child? Is it worth having a child with this man?” More often, of course, mothers come with this question, but fathers can also be very responsible and ask such a question. It makes me very happy when you see the care of the future dad at the moment when he is just thinking about his future child. The baby is not there yet, but the Pope is thinking about him. This is so beautiful and courageous! As a psychologist, a happy wife and mother of two beautiful children, I want to tell you one secret and share my experience. The answer to the question “When should you give birth to a child?” not at all the numbers that mean the difference between today's date and the date of birth in your passport. Nowadays you can give birth and give life at almost any age, thanks to advances in medicine. The answer to the question “When should you give birth to a child?” is in your condition. You can give birth to any child at any time. But in order to give birth to a healthy and harmonious new person, you need to be in a similar harmonious state. If the thought of a child comes to you, first look at yourself, your partner and your life. Don't rush, but don't slow down for too long. You just have to be happy first! Find your interest in life, understand where you are going by defining the general Meanings of your relationship with your partner: The most important thing in a couple is its Meanings Be in a state of Love, find, feel and immerse yourself in it: What is true Love Have sex out of Love and in Love . And this is the only way if you want a healthy and harmonious child. With your condition and the magic of interaction with your partner, you shape your future child, his physical characteristics, his character, his Soul. Therefore, when you decide to go to the store for a baby doll, first check your physical and mental health, do an honest self-analysis, find all your mental blocks and negative attitudes. Work through them on your own or in work with your psychologist, however long it takes you. This is the key to your future effective life. If you follow all the recommendations given in this article, then your chances of a happy marriage and motherhood will increase significantly. Tested from my own experience. My dear future and present mothers, I wish you all to understand the Meanings that I wanted to convey to you! And then you will be happy in happy motherhood! With care and support, Your psychologist and mentor Svetlana Averina