How to choose a partner for life? Just like the path of life - calmly and freely, or overcoming obstacles. One of the important points when choosing is how we make it - consciously or spontaneously. The second option often leads to certain consequences. To make a decision in which you will not be disappointed , it will be useful to focus on the criteria for a good choice: precisely define your goal - why do you need this? what do you expect? think about your desires - what do you want? what is important to you? compare your values ​​and the values ​​of your partner; collect and evaluate all available information about your partner - character traits, habits, relationships in the parental family...; base your choice not only on the rational, but also on the emotional: on your preferences , features; it will be useful to stop, take a break and look at the situation from the outside, not to rush; recognize that any choice is your decision, even if others consider it “wrong”; put an end to your search in time and enjoy the chosen option, accepting him as he is. Now think about these criteria when choosing a partner for life. ⬇Criteria for a “suitable” partner for a relationship: Attractiveness. Supportive. Sense of humor. Good communication. Availability of a partner - to be there physically or emotionally when you really need it. Interest. Tolerance and open-mindedness. Closeness - in values, emotions. Acceptance - your hobbies, views, loved ones. Correct feedback - better through I-statements, without criticism and comparison with others. Adequate perception of relationships, partnerships, family life - it is better to discuss in advance. Body and eye contact - often this is not enough. But, if someone has already made a bad choice, you shouldn’t be upset about it - it’s better to think what to do next! And the main task is to build and improve relationships with yourself, because the only person with whom you will spend your whole life is it's you yourself.