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Psychotherapy is a process in which, in addition to solving therapeutic problems, we build a relationship with the child, from the first “Hello” to the last “Bye.” The process of building, developing and ending relationships is an integral part of our lives, however, for various reasons, it is not always possible to go through the entire path of relationships. One of the tasks of psychotherapy is to show how to enter into relationships, develop them and always end them. It is the completion of therapy that makes it possible to move to a new stage of development, and not get into the trauma of “loss of a significant object”, “disappearance of significant people”, “fear of attachment”. By giving the child the opportunity to complete psychotherapy, parents allow the child to live the experience of separation, and not be traumatized, Parents also live the same experience when they complete work with their child’s psychologist and talk through important points that they succeeded or failed to accomplish in their work. The child develops an understanding, the people who are significant to him do not disappear, relationships with them end, and it is possible to end the relationship without traumatizing neither yourself nor anyone else. Adults undergoing psychotherapy find themselves in the same relationship-building system, and if their basic attachment pattern is not secure, then fear of entering into or ending a relationship can lead to “flight” from the relationship. Then it is important to clarify what is happening between the psychologist and the client, how the client feels about this relationship, how he is used to building relationships, whether he has experience ending the relationship (not breaking it off, but ending it)).