The cry of the mother, driving the child into despair, from the house, from the body, from his own life. Why does the mother yell, what does she want to destroy in the child with her scream? What's screaming in it? Pain or the habit of defeating the situation by yelling? What is destroyed in a child by this yelling? It turned out that in the body the mother’s cry hangs in the chest, ears, and head. A child in defense becomes unresponsive to it and is lost from hearing and feeling. He then does not hear high notes in the speech of adults. The louder the mother calls for something, the greater the protection and deafness of the child. Teachers who in kindergarten and school try to “get” to children end up in emptiness instead of their goal. The children had already come home traumatized by their parents’ yelling. They are already a teacher’s orator to a blue star. The louder the teacher yells, the more indifference the students have to him and his subject. How to teach a child to study and be independent if any independence at home is undermined by his mother’s cry: “What have you done?”, “Not hands, but hooks!” “Who does this?”, “You just want to ruin everything!”, “I had to do it, why didn’t I?”, “Shut up,” “Why couldn’t you tell a beautiful poem?”, “You won’t succeed!” , “Who are you?”...Mothers, fathers, if you want your children to become responsible people, then they do not need criticism, shouting and humiliation, but explanations, examples of how to do, personal examples of what you do, love and support in that by trying and doing, repeating you, he will be able to do everything himself. The knowledge that he has everything for this is the best thing for him - his own body. Knowing that he is alive and has a body, mind and heart because of you. You are the creators of your children. Teach a child to own all this wealth and he will create the world.