The story of their relationship is catchy, that’s why it was filmed. The story of their relationship ended with his sudden death. The woman was left alone. She remembered and thought about how happy they had been lately, like never before. “This is happy sadness,” she explained to her friends. But suddenly the dead man presented an unpleasant surprise. Look! (material contains spoilers) Our thoughts influence our emotions, and then our reactions (behavior, physical well-being). Our ingrained bad thinking habits may lie dormant, but in times of acute stress they are there. That’s why it’s worth knowing them by sight, don’t you agree? This is about adequate self-esteem, about unconditional self-acceptance. The widow was not particularly worried about her cognitive habits: catastrophizing, devaluing the positive, mind reading, and others just took a nap. They woke up when the lawyer handed the will of the deceased into her hands. He left a million dollars to his ex-wife. The one he cheated on with Kerry, whom he left for Kerry. “He ruined our sad happiness,” the widow will say, wringing her withered hands. Meanwhile, the brain started a carousel out of habit: “What did he have with her after the breakup, he cheated, what other skeletons are in his closet, I need to talk to the unexpected heiress!” With her thoughts, Kerry drove herself into neurosis, as she always did. She ignored Charlotte and Miranda's recommendations not to make decisions under the State Duma. What kind of GOZU? I’ll write further. The widow put on an outfit from a famous brand (every second of the series “It’s So Easy,” the sequel to “Sex and the City,” the heroines wear fashionable, stylish, fashionable clothes) and went to meet the heiress. “Why did he leave her a million dollars?” The whole episode is dedicated to Carrie’s attempts to talk to the one she helped cuckold. A whole series of wringing of dry hands and restless thoughts, rumination, and, as a result, growing anxiety. “Don’t make a decision under GOZU: hunger, loneliness, anger and fatigue.” The advice was not heeded and, in the end, having scalded her hands with fiery coffee, Kerry talked to Natasha. She had no idea why her ex-husband left her the money. She will donate them to charity, she has not seen him, and Kerry is unpleasant to her because of the memories of the past. Then it dawns on the widow that her late husband, the man of my dreams, was a financier. “Money is his way of asking for forgiveness”! This is the story from the series “And just like that / And just like that.” Very revealing, don't you agree? How often do your emotions run high and push you to commit shameful, dangerous, stupid acts? Now you know that your own thoughts are to blame, which you can work with through cognitive therapy. Or, at least, don’t make a decision under the State Duma. Can you? With respect to you, practicing psychologist, member of the ACPP, author of books Peter Galigarov - I help individuals who want to improve their relationships! Sign up for consultations via galigabarov.com