Women don’t succeed with men. No matter how many times she tried to improve her personal life, the situation always unfolded according to the same scenario. At first the man seemed interested, courted, called, wrote SMS. Then the communication became closer, the words became more confidential. Sometimes it came to sex, once the romance even ended in marriage. But every time, the “X” moment came when the man suddenly disappeared. All our lady’s attempts to prove to her partner how good, valuable, and irreplaceable she is were unsuccessful. Since childhood, the woman has been accustomed to being the first. She studied “excellently” at school, attended figure skating, where she was also the best student. Her hobby was collecting postcards, and of a certain theme - New Year's Soviet vintage. The collection was considered unique. Taking care of appearance was also a priority. She never ate anything extra, at the wrong time, or with the wrong amount of calories. The list of our heroine's perfections could be continued endlessly. But all her many advantages did not bring her happiness in love. Only after getting comfortable with a new man did she immediately begin to repeat her “traditional” model of behavior. The lady was becoming excellent in relationships. She tried hard to match the man, to guess every desire, to please in everything. In addition, as a real “knowledgeable”, our heroine tried to give advice, find the best options for behavior for her chosen one, even teach him. Naturally, no one could withstand such total guardianship for long. The men either quietly walked away from her, or loudly slammed the door and defiantly retreated. At the same time, many expressed everything they thought about her obsessive care. The woman sincerely could not understand - what was she doing wrong? After all, she tried to arrange everything in the best possible way. With such an “ideal” model of behavior in a relationship, the woman gets, oddly enough, the opposite result. Her inadequate care cannot be imported to a man, since it involuntarily puts him in the position of a child. A man, on the other hand, is initially closer to the role of a hunter. In order to achieve sincere interest in herself, a woman needs to step back a little, even try to evade hugs. Then the partner’s masculinity will “switch on” and he will want to pursue the woman. And having conquered it, leave it with you forever.