Couples often encounter difficulties in relationships, especially now, in times of crisis. Many are now exposed to grievances, anger and misunderstandings. Nowadays there are a lot of discussions on the topic of women’s share and understanding of women’s psychology in relationships. Yes, of course, you need to understand how to interact with wives/girlfriends, but it is important to remember that there are TWO of you in a relationship. That’s why I’m launching a series of posts about the psychology of men in relationships. We women look for meanings and secret messages in a man’s actions, but by engaging in such soul-searching, women only become more confused and end up in conflict. To avoid misunderstandings and conflicts, it’s easier to understand the needs of your partner. And then to help realize them - to show support and interest. By the way, many of the needs of men and women are similar, but there are internal differences - they are the root of quarrels and aggression within a family/couple. Knowing the needs of a partner in a relationship, many conflict issues will cease to arise between you. 1. Self-realization. It would seem that a man can realize himself in business or at work. However, this is not the only way men realize themselves! And here it is very important to give your partner free space and time for hobbies: through hobbies and interests, a man also fulfills his need for self-realization. It is especially important for him to feel fulfilled in order to be emotionally healthy. Every person wants to be fulfilled, unique and special. 2. Feeling of pride. Pay attention to your partner’s intelligence and competence, give compliments. Not only girls need them! Be grateful, don’t forget the magic word “thank you.” Men realize their needs for significance through caring for loved ones. This gives a man self-confidence. 3. Love and affection. Men feel love and support through the physical, first of all. Thanks to this, they feel fullness of life. Physical manifestations of love: hugs, stroking, kisses, sex, etc. It is important to understand what ways of showing love your partner needs - this will relieve feelings of depression and give a man a resource. Men may seem less affectionate, than women, but they also need love and affection. We are not talking about emotionality here, since emotionality can be reduced due to upbringing. 4. Sense of Belonging and Security: Belonging to a group and cooperating provides a man with an environment where he can receive respect and admiration from others. This gives confirmation of dignity. It is important for women to remember compliments and gratitude for their partner’s achievements, do not forget to pay attention to all the small steps forward. Remember! If you feel like your relationship has become colder, it may be a result of your unexpressed disagreements..