Betrayal for each person has its own personal meaning. Most often, betrayal is sexual contact between one of the partners and a third party. But for some, communication, flirting, correspondence are also perceived as emotional betrayal. Why do such unpleasant incidents as betrayal occur?!🔘Partners have impaired communication. For example: a husband/wife calls on their partner to change behavior in personal relationships, in everyday life, in sex, in society. The partner being approached is not going to correct his behavior. The tension accumulates, there is a need to get a release from the accumulated tension. This cannot be done with this partner and the search begins for that person who will bring lightness and relaxation to life.⚠️In such cases, the partner most often comes with a confession of betrayal and leaves for another relationship..🔘Psychological immaturity. One of the partners creates an ideal world in a permanent relationship. But he has a need for betrayal in order to prove to his “narcissist” that I am still “anywhere”. And in the family they are waiting for me on the side. Thus, reinforcing your self-esteem.⚠️In such cases, the partner hides the betrayal in every possible way. If the fact of betrayal is revealed, the partner makes every excuse “an eclipse came over me,” “I was bewitched,” “he/she dragged me into bed,” etc. How to properly cope with the fact of betrayal?✳If betrayal affects your life principles and you understand that it is impossible to forgive this incident, then you should end the relationship.✳ If you want to give your partner a chance and continue the relationship with him, then you both need to work with a psychologist. This is necessary in order to understand “why I was cheated on” - by one partner, “why I cheated” - by another partner. During psychological sessions, analyze old behavior strategies and adjust new ones. This process is successful if both partners are truly interested in it. Always act based on your personal feelings and personal circumstances. You shouldn’t make a decision based on popular patterns of behavior 🙌 Take care of each other 🙏 And if you have to experience the pain of betrayal, I can become your guide and lead you out of the dark tunnel of pain, resentment and fear to the light of a new stage of life 💫