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How to become a charming person without manipulation? Tell me, do you like to communicate with a pleasant, charming person? Your answer, I suppose, is “of course.” It’s no secret that almost all doors are open for a charming person: housing office workers become friendlier, traffic cops become softer, and sometimes they release an attractive, kind violator with the words “don’t violate again,” sometimes without even issuing a fine. When such a person finds himself in a place dangerous to health, for example, in Sberbank during rush hour, or even worse - in a clinic, everything around him suddenly blossoms! This is not to mention how charm has a beneficial effect on relationships between opposite sexes. Agree that being such a person is extremely useful. At all times, among different peoples and in all countries, one of the winning skills has been and to this day is the ability to communicate competently and make a pleasant impression, leaving a long trail of bright, joyful emotions in the interlocutor after your communication with him. For some reason, it is now common to think that that truly charming and pleasant people are either favorite actors or swindlers who know how to ingratiate themselves using their skillful acting skills, various kinds of manipulation and cunning communication techniques. I believe that this is not entirely true. We all have natural charm and know how to please people, but most likely we have simply forgotten how to do it. Have you ever wondered why children cause such great delight in adults? The answer is simple: the point is their naturalness and naturalness. Unfortunately, it is now common to think that childish spontaneity in an adult is infantilism, or even problems with the head. Maybe so, but the fact remains that charming people evoke similar sensations as children with their genuine naturalness and natural behavior. A logical question arises: can this be learned? answer: you can, but you need to know important principles. Many modern communication trainings provide techniques, but, unfortunately, these techniques are reproduced so crudely and awkwardly that it is better to do without them. Do you know why? Because we have forgotten about the most important components of charm - sincerity, naturalness, naturalness, openness, responsiveness. Without these important ingredients, any smile becomes false, like, for example, the strained smile of the Nutcracker, any behavior looks pretentious, and any communication technique, clearly carried out according to all the rules and recommendations of the trainer, becomes like a bad joke. If you really want to touch your natural charm and begin to develop the potential of a charming person, I recommend attending the free seminar “How to learn to easily and quickly make a pleasant impression on people,” which will take place on August 3, at 19:00 Moscow time.