Betrayal, stay or leave? This is a terrible event that has destroyed more than a dozen marriages and destinies. Each person approaches this with his own philosophy. It is impossible to come up with a pill for cheating. This is very painful, cruel and .... It completely destroys trust, leads to disappointment in a person and in oneself. What to do? The most difficult question in this whole situation. There is no definite answer to it, each betrayal is a unique case or a series of cases and they are all very often happen for completely ridiculous reasons. There is only one panacea and the first thing to do is Forgive! You should definitely try to forgive the person, regardless of whether you stay together with him or not. Hidden grievances do not bring anything good! Resentment is poisonous, toxic and completely unnecessary for you. It will negatively affect your entire life. Forgiveness will be of great benefit and it will become much easier for you. You may need to consult a psychologist, if you have the strength to cope on your own, then there are many techniques for this. In addition to forgiveness, you need to decide whether to stay or leave? Stay with this person and move on. It depends on your life philosophy. From your views and values. You have a lot in common, and you have lived together for more than one year? Do you have children or joint projects? It may be worth staying, but there is no need to reproach and manipulate at every opportunity. Life will turn into hell, where there is absolutely no place for former joys. Leaving and taking care of yourself is a good option. You can finally find yourself and indulge in your hobbies. The main thing when leaving is to understand that you have the strength to do this and if you are left alone you will not eat yourself up, but why did he or she do it. Look within yourself for reasons that something is wrong with you. When leaving, you need to spend all your energy on yourself, and not burn out in a riot of your negative emotions. The most important thing is not to do something out of principle. You cheated on me here and now I’ll begin to take revenge on you and move mountains. It is best to do the act that will cause you the least discomfort inside. Then you all have to live with this. Remove internal sadomasochism. Think, understand why you find yourself in this situation. Maybe this is not the first time and it’s worth thinking about what led you to this? It also happens that a relationship has long outlived its usefulness, and betrayal has simply become an indicator of its death. In this case, just leave and be happy with the new person! Love, create and improve yourself!