Now there is a lot of talk about women who castrate men and all that. A lot of trainings are offered on how to behave in order to get anything you want from a partner, how to praise him, please him, and someday, maybe something will come of him! But...there is a but! The above topics are undoubtedly important! Let's get back to the man! First of all, “this type of weak castrated sex” is a person. Like any other person, creature, a male child needs guardianship, love, care! And his first woman in life is his mother! It's basically the same for women. And before raising a child’s gender, it is important that the baby develops a sense of security, he understands that he is loved just like that, and the mother is a good creature, but the world is the same! So, if a man had everything ok with security and a feeling of love, there is no way for a woman to castrate him! A man knows that he is worthy of love, that he exists, and there is no need to prove his goodness! And no matter how hard a woman tries to humiliate and offend, she won’t succeed! Most likely, such a woman will eventually learn to trust her partner (on her own or with a psychologist, it’s up to everyone). But if a woman is not ready for a relationship with a mature man, gets a huge thrill from a relationship with an emotionally traumatized man, she will go looking for someone who will be like a doormat, a nurse, etc. and can proudly say “I was right, that’s it.” they are like “Dear women and men! A woman can “castrate” or traumatize only a child, her son, since the child is defenseless and dependent, and easily succumbs to the provocations of adults. Therefore, where something is wrong with the child, it may be worth going to work with your maternal strategies, anger at men, etc. What to do? Pay attention to the following points (for mothers of boys): - Are you angry with the child for his slowness? - Do you judge the child for showing feelings? - Do you consider the child to be armless, incapable of anything without skills? - Do you think that your husband will not be able to cope with this child? - Do you stand up for your child when your husband yells at him, or do you leave him to deal with problems on his own? - Does your child help you in reconciliations or with your man? - Are you jealous of other people? I won’t tell you what questions here require “yes” or “no”! These are more like polls for thought! And of course, you can ask questions under this post! With love for your sores, sexologist, family coach, psychosomatologist Tatyana Pavlenko #Healthy_psychosomatics