Today I will describe one of the ways to find a life partner who is “proven in practice.” How to make a choice and not make a mistake? I fully admit that some of you will say that they choose with their hearts and they don’t need lice checks, but there will be some of you who will say - we choose with our hearts, but we choose for life. In this article I will not talk about what is love, infatuation, I will approach the task with a sober head on how to identify the positive traits of your companions. Where, in your opinion, can we model the situation of relationships between partners in a family? Any guesses? All true, the closest relationships between a man or a woman are in line with the relationship between an employer and an employee. What are the similarities between these relationships and properties, let’s take it in order: One surname, one company, the first thing that unites people is a “sign”. Two surnames in a family are like two companies, two companies under one roof are contradictions. At work and in the family there are roles that need to be played out and efforts made, for example in the family the role of wife, father, husband; in an enterprise the role of a boss, specialist, expert. Take a closer look at what your companion says about his colleagues, about his superiors, about work in general - can you guess who might be next in this chain? Can she (he) take responsibility at work and complete assigned tasks to the end, how does she respond to the severity of the assigned tasks? All this will then be transferred into your life. The place of work, like the place of residence, is limited by space, a family apartment or an office, an office in which we work. Trash and chaos at work will show how your companion(s) will feel about order at home. Find out why he (she) chose this or that job, what prompted him to do it, whether the work he (she) is doing is just a formality to make money. What is the value in the work? Will a joint family be a formality? In the morning to work, in the evening from work to the sofa, on the weekend a trip to the supermarket and all this with a slight sadness on the face, because it’s necessary and everyone does it. How often does a job change occur, is this due to the fact that you don’t like the conditions, don’t do you like the pay, are some people not like that? Or is it connected with finding yourself, with self-realization, which your companion(s) can clearly identify, and not refer to a third, guilty party. The last point for today is to pay attention to the growth of your companion (s) in the company where he (she) works. Will you be able to keep up or slow down also in life together; if your future husband or wife develops at a pace that is not comfortable for you, disagreements may not be applicable. Who is your partner, have you already found? If your search has taken a long time, go see a specialist, he will probably be able to point you in the right direction. That’s all for today! I wish you psychological and family well-being. Add a story about how you can find out your future partner.