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First, let's figure out what a new standard of living is. How do you imagine it? Read no further. Stop and write down a couple of phrases that can characterize this new level of life for you. When I asked this question to one of my clients, she answered: “This is life from a different price segment.” I asked for an example. She said: “Well, now I drive a Kia, and at another level I will drive a Maybach.” I ask, are there intermediate options? She says: “No.” And she is not alone. We all essentially perceive a different level of life as something completely different. And therefore, this next level often seems somehow unattainable to us. That is, in fact, for the majority there are only three levels. Poverty - More/Less - Wealth Poverty - I have nothing at all, I can barely make ends meet, and sometimes there is nothing to eat. Wealth is when I can afford buy yourself everything your heart desires. But More/Less is such a very wide segment, because we get stuck in this segment for a long time. Because this is a segment when we cannot afford something. For example, I want to go on vacation to Turkey, but I can only go to the country. I want to go on vacation to the Maldives, but I can only go to Turkey. I want a car, but I don’t have a car. I want to drive a Lamborghini, but I drive a Kia. I want a salary of 70 thousand rubles, but I have 35 thousand rubles. I already have a salary of 100 thousand, but I want 200 thousand. And again I don’t have enough for everything I want. And here’s the most interesting thing. What we don’t notice when we grow inside this level. Because we consider it to be the same level. And this is a huge mistake. Conventionally: - there is a car, but there is always not enough money - there is no car, because there is no money for it. Is this the same standard of living? Or different? I suggest you do one practice. The standard of living where you can afford absolutely everything is wonderful and you need to keep it in mind and strive for it. And this is the top of the ladder. But in order to now take real steps towards a new level, you need to understand not the top of the ladder, but your next step. This will be the next level for you. You can, of course, sit and dream about how you will immediately find yourself at the top of this ladder. Or you can just gradually climb the steps. But in order to walk along these steps, you need to understand what awaits you on the next step. Only then will you understand that you have moved to this next step. You should understand this next step very well for yourself. You really have to write it down, specifically in fact, where you will spend the money and how you will live. For example: salary level - 50 thousand rubles or 100 thousand rubles where and how you relax - at the dacha or in Turkey where and how you look after with your health - do you manage it yourself or do you have a family doctor? what beauty salon do you go to - the one that is closer and cheaper or the one in which you feel comfortable and pleasant, what services do you get in the beauty salon where and how do you study - according to free videos on YouTube that you watch, but don’t change anything in your life, or you go to someone for practical training or maybe even individual work and really change your life. Describe your life at your next step. Otherwise, you won’t even notice how you will climb these steps and at one fine moment you may simply stumble, thinking that you are still at the bottom. And most importantly, if you do not understand and realize that you are growing, then you will not feel joy and satisfaction from this. Because your standard of living and income level are completely different. And at some point you will hit the ceiling and will not be able to grow any more. Life does not tolerate ingratitude. When you don’t notice your changes, you remain dissatisfied, which means you are ungrateful towards life. I’ll give you my own example. When I moved to live in Russia, my first salary was 35 thousand rubles. We lived in Obninsk and rented a room there in a communal apartment, and