Sophisticated girl. There lived a girl, she was married and had 2 children. She was terribly annoyed with her mother-in-law, literally hated her. The girl believed that her mother-in-law did not know how to love, that she was completely selfish, and she also became attached to her son (that is, to the girl’s husband). He always pulls him out of the family under the pretext of various important matters. And this despite the fact that the mother-in-law has a husband! Well, just a terrible woman who cannot understand that her son grew up and got married long ago. Because of all this, the girl did not like her mother-in-law, and she was offended by her husband. BUT I understood that he had nothing to do with it, it was the mother-in-law who was to blame for everything, she couldn’t let her son go! The girl did not understand that all these feelings were, in fact, intended for her husband. And that she is angry with him. Somewhere very deeply she understood that it was only his choice to go to his mother and how often. Somewhere, very deeply, she even understood that this choice was clearly not in her favor. And that he, in his 30s, cannot separate from his mother, not go to the garage and be in the family - this is also his choice! HIS CHOICE! The girl did not understand, but her sophisticated psyche understood that if she admitted all this to herself, she would have to do something with her husband, and most likely she would get a divorce! Because everything suited him, but she didn’t. However, in reality, everything was completely different. Once upon a time, a girl herself decided to marry this man. Therefore, neither the mother-in-law nor the husband is responsible for the girl’s psychological comfort. They did not promise to meet her expectations and, in fact, were exactly the same as they were 10 years ago when she got married. The girl did not understand that in fact, ALL these feelings were intended for her. Since only she is responsible for her life and her happiness. The girl did not understand, but her sophisticated psyche understood that if this gets to the girl, she will explode! Therefore, the psyche protected her with all sorts of different excuses and fears, as long as the girl simply lived. Conclusion: in order not to “explode,” solve problems as soon as something no longer suits you! Otherwise, such powerful defenses will then turn on that they simply won’t let you out. All characters are fictitious. Any similarities with real people are coincidental! You can sign up for an online or offline consultation here.