From the author: Perhaps the name will seem strange to some, but I want to leave it as it turned out, perhaps the same strange and incomprehensible thing will be which will be discussed below. But I would like to raise the question, both about the very importance of gratitude in relationships, and about some of its “oddities” and features. So, what can we, women, be grateful to men for?! Perhaps the name will seem strange to some, but I want to leave it as it turned out, perhaps what will be discussed below will be just as strange and incomprehensible . But I would like to raise the question, both about the very importance of gratitude in relationships, and about some of its “oddities” and features. So, what can we women be grateful to men for?! 1) For love. Yes, for love to happen, it takes two, and it is here, and not only, in a woman’s life: a man is an integral part. We develop feelings for someone, and in order to love someone, we need that someone, that one. After all, life isn’t the same without him, but even if it is, it’s even more interesting with him. Even if it so happened that you separated for some reasons or feelings, on the other hand, not or not enough, then you can be glad that all this happened to the two of you or, specifically, to you. After all, love does not come to everyone and not always, so stop punishing fate for the fact that this love was unhappy. He who has love in his heart is a thousand times richer than what he did not know and does not want to know it at all. I'm not saying that it doesn't hurt, or that it hurts unbearably, and that too, but more on that later. Personally, I am grateful that it was next to Him that I felt exactly what I felt. These feelings and emotions are majestic, rich, divine, unique, immense and indescribable. I think I would love again.2) For masculinity. My man is my hero! It is very important for a woman to feel that the man who is next to her can protect her. This does not always depend on weight, height, build and physical fitness. A woman simply needs to know and feel that, with this particular man, she is safe. Therefore, no matter what happens that threatens her safety or requires male participation, he will find an opportunity to help her, if not with his own strength, then with the help of other people, the main thing is that he will resolve this issue. I’m not talking about a broken nail (although about a nail too), but a broken heel is even more important, because your woman shouldn’t have to wonder how she’ll get to work and whether she has money for a manicure or a taxi if you don’t you can give her a ride. She definitely shouldn’t hobble around like a shot grasshopper, because you definitely can’t help her. Masculinity for me is when I feel physically and financially safe with a man, when men solve problems and do not create problems. What is courageous is the way a man does something: from hammering a nail (let me remind you, not necessarily with his own hands, but initiative is welcome) to a serious business or creative project. Yes, by the way, I can do it all myself and decide, but why do I need a man or such a man then. It is unlikely that I will be able to feel and be a real woman in such a situation. I am grateful to those men who solve money issues themselves, meet me at airports (train stations), do business (even if I don’t understand it), do not pose a threat to my safety and do not forget, with all their masculinity, to gently kiss me on the cheek.3) For tenderness and care. When men do all of the above with care and tenderness, this is wonderful. In return, I also want to be gentle, caring and beautiful. It is to be close to such a man, and not waste yourself on boors and slackers. It’s great when they take care of you, when they notice your real interests, when they will definitely give you what you like and you don’t have to suffer from forced gratitude. After all, life is made up of little things, and by giving little joys to your woman every day, you can/4900/1/