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As a coach, I support those who set themselves various scientific and creative goals: writing a dissertation, monograph, article, work of art. In my practice, there have been cases when clients, testing the strength of my coaching position, offered me to do part of the work for them: write a thesis, find illustrations for an article, write a story... Imagine, you come to a coach and say: “Now do squats for me!” There is one important point in coaching. A coach is committed to his client's goal and continually improves his skills to support his clients as they move forward. But he cannot strive for your goal faster than you yourself strive for it. If you really don’t want to do it yourself, then coaching will not help you. I completely agree: not everything and not always needs to be done on your own. Contact a copywriter or designer - that is, a specialist to whom you can delegate this or that task. Why can't you delegate to a coach? The answer is simple: this is a specialist of a different level. Not a performer, but a partner, associate, colleague. Another point is the specifics of coaching support. A coach will support you at a time when your motivation decreases, help you hear your own inner values ​​again and find ways to restore strength, but don’t expect him to persuade you or force you to reach your goal. This is your goal, and the choice to go towards it is your choice. If you feel internal resistance, admit it to your coach. He will be able to find questions that will allow you to return to your own values ​​and take another look at the path you have traveled and the path remaining. Sometimes it happens that internal beliefs, psychological trauma, and fear of serious changes prevent us from moving forward. It even happens that the coach and client interrupt work for a while so that the client can work with a psychotherapist and restore internal harmony. Yes, coaching, despite all its capabilities, is not the only means of fulfilling all desires and realizing all human needs. As you strive for your desired future, choose those specialists whose professional knowledge will truly be useful to you. More precisely, find the best opportunities to implement your plans. By the way, with my clients, whom I wrote about at the very beginning, we discussed why they wanted to delegate part of their work to me. Some were stressed by the routine of the search, some were not confident in their abilities, some were suddenly afraid that they would not be able to do it in a worthy manner - and the very awareness of their internal resistance allowed them to move on. We discussed what kind of pictures were needed, what the story should be about, what was the most interesting thing about working on a diploma - and the person happily got down to business. After all, everyone wanted to get an excellent result created on their own - and that’s why they chose coaching.